I used cloth diapers for my first child and was proud of myself for doing so. I breast fed, made my own baby food, and sterilized everything. I followed guidelines and kept a diary of how much Aaron ate, when he slept, and for how long. I was going to be the perfect mom! Then when Katie was born, I relaxed -- I did what felt right and was safe and made sense. I learned that there's no such thing as the perfect mom, or the perfect kid -- you just have to do what works for both of you.